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Why One Ring Cannot Rule Them All

So, over on fetlife there has been some interesting discussions going on around appropriate behaviour when wanting to play with someone when out at a club. The three posts were titled"Why I will never ask your Dom for permission" (the post that started it all, and has since been deleted), "Why I will always ask your Dom for permission", and "Your Kink Is Not My Community Standard".

All three threads have some interesting points, and I have been thinking about where I stand on these matters.

The first post basically stated that the writer would not play with someone where he had to ask that person's dominant partner for permission to play. And I can understand where he was coming from. I agreed with some of his points (that permission for sub b to play should be discussed between sub b and Dom A, without the need for anyone else to be involved in the discussion), but disagreed with others (ie, just because you're asking Dom A to play with their submissive b, doesn't put you in a position of being submissive to Dom A)

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Limbo

I've totally got out of the habit of writing here this year, haven't I? I'm not quite sure why, other than the fact that life has been going through a lot of changes over the past 12 months, and I haven't been ready to share it all. I'm still not quite ready to share all of it, but I hope I will be able to, in time.

One of the biggest changes of the past 12 months, is R having moved to a different city to me. It was something she'd been wanting to do for quite some time, but it's meant that our relationship has been a long distance one since the beginning of the year. But that's not for too much longer. We're currently waiting to hear if we've got the house we wanted, and if we do (which is looking VERY likely right now,) we'll be moving in a couple of weeks time. Moving in together! It's really exciting and feels like a good step forwards. My relationship with R has been possibly the healthiest relationship I've ever had, and finally moving in together feels like the right step for us now.

When I've moved in with partners in the past, it's always been in a rush, a mix of circumstances meaning that our relationships were only months old when we moved in together (or actually, I moved into their house), and unsurprisingly, none of these relationships lasted in the long term. Hell, they weren't even all that good in the short term, but I can't go back now and change the choices I made then. This time is different. R and I have been together nearly 4 years (wow, I can't believe it's actually been that long!). We have picked a house together which we are going to make OURS. For us, this was a very important distinction. Moving her into my place never felt like an option. There's a certain power imbalance in moving into someone else's house. No matter how much they want you there, there's always the feeling that it's *theirs*. This is the house they picked, they've arranged it how they want, they have to get rid of stuff or rearrange stuff for you to fit in.

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Spanking Sessions with Pandora Blake

Pandora Blake and I have been working together closely for a long time now on our sites (Nimues World and Dreams of Spanking), and have recently added another string to our joint bow, so to speak. We are now offering double sessions together, both in London and Birmingham.

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We're both enthusiastic switches, loving to both give and recieve, so there's many, many possibilities for fun and roleplays. Here's just a short sample of the sort of fun we enjoy getting up to:Dreams-of-Spanking_big-location-shoot2013_galleristas5

  • Double caning - Ever imagined what it would be like to be on the recieving end of the cane from two ladies? One right hander, one left hander? Now you can try it for real, if you think you're brave enough!
  • Spanked at school, spanked at home - You know the rules, if you're summoned to the headmistresses office to recieve the cane, you can expect a hard spanking from Mum when you get home. And don't try to get out of it, the headmistress has already called ahead.
  • Can you handle two sadistic girls ganging up on you together? Two prefects taking advantage of the new student, or maybe your ex and her best friend are out for revenge, either way, you'll not know what's hit you
  • Caught behind the bike shed with your girlfriend, again. Being made to watch your girlfriend being punished, all the while, knowing you're up next.
  • Ring of Fire! One pack of cards, 3 switches, and a lot of kinky fun. Our fates are down to the cards, but all of us will get spanked, and dish out spankings as well!
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Reflections on punishment

I'm slowly beginning to realise that I don't like punishment. I mean, I know you're not meant to like it, that's kinda the point of punishment. What I mean is that the punishment dynamic does very little for me these days, especially if I (or the character I'm playing, in the case of roleplay) am in the wrong and deserving of punishment, and believe so.

On our big location shoot earlier this year, I had 2 days of shooting with Pandora and Tom. Both fantastic CP tops. I excitedly sat down and planned lots of scripts that tapped into my fantasies, but it wasn't until last week, when I was editing the content, that I realised that out of everything we shot, we only did 1 punishment scene. And even in that scene, the punishment was somewhat unfair, and unjustified.

Looking back through the history of my site is interesting. I have a lot of spanking scenes, but most are spanking for enjoyment, as a reward or two people enjoying CP for the sake of it. There are also a few punishment scenes, but rarely are these justified punishments. They are tops taking roles where they abuse their power, where they are clearly the ones in the wrong. I love this feeling of abuse of power, and I think it's something which comes through strongly in my spankings scenes, both as a bottom (I'm thinking of "I've Seen You", here especially), and as a top (in the School Bully series).

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Lady Godiva and Michael Darling

Life is settling back into normal routines here now, and I've nearly caught up with all my laundry from the location shoot and my sessions immediately after! But even though I still have a pile of white knickers that need washing, the products of our time in the cottage are already being published!

I was trying to do a day-by-day breakdown of what we shot, and things seem to have come together perfectly for that, because Pandora has just published the film that we shot that morning, while waiting for the lovely Michael Darling to arrive.... (Michael was helping out after the model who had been booked fror that day was in a car accident on his way to us - we didn't know about that until the day after we shot with Michael, at the time all we knew was that he hadn't arrived)

It wasn't the first thing we shot that day, but I'll come back to the things we did first in a moment.... now I want to share some images from Lady Godiva, a fun F/F spanking movie where I play a young lady who has joined the Pony Club, and brought some ideas with me that the more..... ahem.... traditional members don't approve of.

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New People!

I love shooting for my site - a chance to play out fantasies with some of my favourite people in front of a camera - but it doesn't offer me an opportunity to meet new people like shooting for others does. And #biglocationshoot2013 definitely offered me the chance to meet new people!

The first of these new people was Dreams Of Spanking's new photographer who arrived on Sunday night, in time for dinner - a very interesting guy to chat with, and a wonderful photographer. The second new person arrived Monday morning, in the form of that days model - the gorgeous Lola-Marie. I had seen Lola-Marie's work in various places around the web and was really looking forward to meeting her.

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More Pr0ns!

Every time I sit down to blog, I make myself a promise that I'm not just going to talk about the thing's I've shot and use this blog for self promotion. And then I don't blog cos I can't think of anything else that I want to say.

So, I'll do you a quick update - life is still good, but complicated and stressful.

But this week is a good week. This week is the week of #biglocationshoot2013 !!!

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Rosie B On Being Exploited

As I was travelling home from my wonderful shoot and camming session with the lovely Spanking Sarah on Tuesday morning, a debate erupted on twitter about whether or not porn is exploitative. Pandora Blake was inspired to write a blog post here with her views. Rosie B also had something to say about her experiences in the workplace, as someone with a "mainstream career", who is also involved in sex work.

I am a sex worker.

I am exploited in the workplace.

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More Camshow News!

I've not long got home from London for this weeks adventure, but I'm already looking ahead to next week's adventure! I'm going to be visiting the lovely Spanking Sarah on Monday for a day of shooting with her, followed by an evening of live spanking camshows!

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Sarah has recently set up a profile on Adultwork, but wasn't sure how to start camming on there, so I'm visiting to help her out and show her the ropes so to speak. It should be a lot of fun! I've shot with Sarah a few times in the past, and she's one of the few tops who can almost reduce me to tears without even touching me, but during the camshows, I'll be able to get my own back, as we are going to be switching!

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Nimue Around The Web

You might have noticed that I've got some new buttons in the side bar of my blog, I've been meaning to write a little about them for a while now, but just not had the opportunity.

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There are now even more ways to interact with me on the web. For those of you in USA and Canada, you can now call me on Niteflirt for kinky fun, or just for a get to know you chat! Or if you prefer to see me while we chat, you can now see my camshows here, as well as on Adultwork.

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