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    Hair and There

    It shouldn’t really be a surprise to me, that having my head shaved would mark the start of some significant changes in my life. I came to realise a lot about myself in the lead up to the event, and even more since then. And to a certain extent, I’m still growing and changing, and realising even more about myself.

    I’ve already written in detail about why I wanted to have my head shaved, about how much I was identified with my hair, and how much I was identified by it as well. People took a look at me, and thought they knew what to expect. Since I chopped of those long, red curls, people started looking at me differently, and maybe realising that their previous first impressions were wrong.

    But that’s not what I want to talk about right now.

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    Good Stuff - January 2016

    I want to try to blog each month, looking back at the good things that have happened over the previous month. It’s part of my plan to keep focussed on the positive things in my life, without letting the negative stuff and stresses overwhelm me. So, in no particular order, here are my good memories from January 2016:

    • Starting the year with new friends, and having an older friend join us after his party had finished elsewhere. Lots of chatting, and singing, and The Chap and I exchanged a lot of drunken, filthy sexts!
    • Having a catch up chat with Pandora, hearing about her time in Australia, getting some good news, and making plans together. Realising that we have both missed working together over the past year, and that we both look forward to working together more over the next year.
    • Spending time with The Chap during a weekend when I was not at my best. My pain levels were high, and I was rather spaced out on painkillers, but he looked after me, gave me a gentle massage, and when I was stood in the supermarket with no idea what I’d gone in to buy, he remembered my shopping list and made sure we got what we needed. It’s reassuring that even when I’m not at my best, he’s not going to run off.
    • Spending a weekend with Rosie, my mum, and my sister-in-law. There was brunch, followed by cocktails, followed by afternoon tea, followed by cocktails, followed by dinner, followed by cocktails. Lots of fun, lots of girly time.
    • Waking up from a bad dream to find one of my kitties snuggled on my chest, the other snuggled on my legs - they look after their mother.
    • Getting to play Bioshock for the first time since it first came out - it’s just as good as I remember it, and I’m looking forward to playing more!
    • NEW SHOES!!! They’re utterly rediculous, I can’t walk in them, but they’re amazing, I love them, and I love R for convincing me I need them in my life.


    • Managing to avoid getting the cold that everyone else in the polycule seemed to have.
    • Baklava. I’ve eaten more of it this month than I think I’ve eaten over the entire rest of my life. I regret nothing.
    • Submitting two of my films to the British Fetish Film Festival.  I've submitted both Cunt, and What Are You, and I'm interested to see which they choose to show!


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    The Top Who Wasn't

    The following is a guest post that I feel honoured to share, but before I do I want to try and explain what this post means to me. You see, it’s a beautiful blog post written for me by The Chap, about a particularly special night we spent together over the holidays. It talks about some amazing, boundary pushing sex we had, and how he felt about it, during and after. And I am feeling a little shy about sharing it.

    I’ve talked a lot on this blog about all the kinky fun I’ve got up to. I’ve talked less about the sex I have, especially recently. This is mainly because the people I’ve been having sex with haven’t wanted me to blog about it, and I totally respect that. But it’s become habit now, and it’s a habit I want to break out of.

    Sex is a big part of my life and my relationships, and I’ve always wanted to share everything I get up to on here, and in my site, so to kick it off, here is the most explicit account of my sex life I’ve published so far!

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    Happy Things

    It's been a while since I last posted her, mainly because the only times I really feel like blogging are times when I'm stresseed or annoyed, and I figure that people don't really want to read that!

    So in the interests of getting myself blogging again, I thought I'd start with a list of things I have to be happy about!

    • I have a lovely house, in a great location, which has given R and I the space to have a couple of wonderful parties over the past months.
    • My little brother has just married a wonderful woman, who I am delighted to welcome into the family.
    • I have my wonderful R, and though it's less than ideal that she works nights, it means that when I take a break from my desk, I can peek my head into the bedroom, and see her curled up, sleeping with my cats.  This makes me feel very warm and fuzzy inside!
    • I have my gorgeous cat, who sleeps on my chest every night
    • I have recently met a wonderful Chap, who I am very much enjoying spending time with and getting to know better (I will be blogging more about him soon, I hope!!)
    • It's winter, which means lots of excuses to drink mulled wine and mulled cider.
    • I have lovely friends who support me and don't judge me.
    • I finally have regular physiotherapy to sort my shoulder out, and hopefully reduce the chance of long periods of pain in the future.

    These are just some of the things I'm happy about right now.... What about you?

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