Nimue's World

Welcome to my Geeky, Kinky, Crazy World

What's Changed - Part 2

I've talked about how things have changed behind the scenes on here, but there are a few changes to the site which effect you - the people visiting!

  • Anyone can sign up for a free site membership, which allows you to join in the discussions on the forum, and comment on my blog. This is the only login information you'll ever need on my site - it's yours forever, and can easily be upgraded to a full membership which gives you access to all my content and camshows. You can sign up for your account , then come back and join in
  • Non-members can now visit the page of any scene on this site, to view the scene description and previews. You can have a good look around, and see what I have to offer. No more wondering if have a photoset of me showing off my school uniform (I do, here), you can see exactly what I have to offer!

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Facilitating

One of the most recent video updates on Dreams of Spanking is Aftercare Spanking, with myself and David Weston.  It's a scene I loved shooting at the time (David has both a delightful bottom, and a wonderful personality), but it's only since it was published that I realise that the story behind it is one I particularly enjoy, and which plays to possibly my ultimate BDSM interest - facilitating other's enjoyment.

In this scene, I play David's girlfriend, who's waiting at home for him to come back after his first ever caning. I rub lotion into his welted bottom, enjoying hearing his thoughts about his experience, before giving him a playful spanking which leaves him giggling and pushing his bottom up to meet each spank.

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What's Changed - Part 1

On the surface of it, it doesn't really look like all that much has changed on my website, and that's probably true.  Most of the changes have been things that you won't see when you stop by!

The major change that you can't see is the fact that this website is now, 100%, entirely MINE, ALL MINE! Previously a percentage of the website income went to other people who did promotion, marketing and other things for me.  But it became clear to me about 12 months ago, that the arrangement just wasn't something I was happy with any longer, for a lot of reasons.  So that's when the process of relaunching began.  I now control everything. I will control the horizontal. I will control the vertical.

The bit of this that I am most excited about is that I now have control over how the site is promoted.  I will no longer have people working with me using offensive words to describe myself and the friends I shoot with.  I will no longer have others trying to shove me into a marketing pigeon hole, that I don't necessarily fit into.  I will no longer be working with people who don't share my values.  I can begin expressing how I view the work I do, how I believe it's a wonderful trend to see more and more performers creating their own content, and how I feel that this can benefit the "porn industry" as a whole.

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Spanked to submission

Yesterday was a very busy day, not only was it launch day for my World, but it was a day I got to spend with The Boss. It was great to see him, and spend some quality time together.  We were both incredibly busy over the summer, so didn't see each other much at all, and when we did see each other, it wasn't for long!

But last week was my birthday, and I wasn't going to let The Boss go home without gettting a birthday spanking and caning, but the scene we ended up playing was nothing like the scene either of us expected, I don't think!

We started out with me going over The Boss' knee for 31 hand spanks, which were lovely.  And when asked what I would like to do next, it didn't take me much to decide that I would like to stay over the knee for more spanking. It was wonderful being over The Boss' knee, being able to entirely let go and relax, to sink into the sensations.  As the spanks got harder and harder, I started giggling, but before long, the giggling stopped.  I waved to The Boss, and let him know that if he continued, I would likely start crying.

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Today's The Day

Today is the day that I've been waiting for for over a year now.  The day that my website is back up and running, and 100% owned by me.  There's a long story behind the change, but today is not the day for that.  Today is the day for celebrations!


I have The Boss here with me today, and he's helping the celebrations, as well as providing snuggles last night to help me keep calm, and be able to sleep.  I'm hoping that some time later today, he'll also provide my belated birthday spanking and caning (finally wrapping up my birthday celebrations, which have stretched over 10 days so far), and that he'll add some "well done" strokes to the caning as well!

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Why One Ring Cannot Rule Them All

So, over on fetlife there has been some interesting discussions going on around appropriate behaviour when wanting to play with someone when out at a club. The three posts were titled"Why I will never ask your Dom for permission" (the post that started it all, and has since been deleted), "Why I will always ask your Dom for permission", and "Your Kink Is Not My Community Standard".

All three threads have some interesting points, and I have been thinking about where I stand on these matters.

The first post basically stated that the writer would not play with someone where he had to ask that person's dominant partner for permission to play. And I can understand where he was coming from. I agreed with some of his points (that permission for sub b to play should be discussed between sub b and Dom A, without the need for anyone else to be involved in the discussion), but disagreed with others (ie, just because you're asking Dom A to play with their submissive b, doesn't put you in a position of being submissive to Dom A)

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Limbo

I've totally got out of the habit of writing here this year, haven't I? I'm not quite sure why, other than the fact that life has been going through a lot of changes over the past 12 months, and I haven't been ready to share it all. I'm still not quite ready to share all of it, but I hope I will be able to, in time.

One of the biggest changes of the past 12 months, is R having moved to a different city to me. It was something she'd been wanting to do for quite some time, but it's meant that our relationship has been a long distance one since the beginning of the year. But that's not for too much longer. We're currently waiting to hear if we've got the house we wanted, and if we do (which is looking VERY likely right now,) we'll be moving in a couple of weeks time. Moving in together! It's really exciting and feels like a good step forwards. My relationship with R has been possibly the healthiest relationship I've ever had, and finally moving in together feels like the right step for us now.

When I've moved in with partners in the past, it's always been in a rush, a mix of circumstances meaning that our relationships were only months old when we moved in together (or actually, I moved into their house), and unsurprisingly, none of these relationships lasted in the long term. Hell, they weren't even all that good in the short term, but I can't go back now and change the choices I made then. This time is different. R and I have been together nearly 4 years (wow, I can't believe it's actually been that long!). We have picked a house together which we are going to make OURS. For us, this was a very important distinction. Moving her into my place never felt like an option. There's a certain power imbalance in moving into someone else's house. No matter how much they want you there, there's always the feeling that it's *theirs*. This is the house they picked, they've arranged it how they want, they have to get rid of stuff or rearrange stuff for you to fit in.

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Spanking Sessions with Pandora Blake

Pandora Blake and I have been working together closely for a long time now on our sites (Nimues World and Dreams of Spanking), and have recently added another string to our joint bow, so to speak. We are now offering double sessions together, both in London and Birmingham.

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We're both enthusiastic switches, loving to both give and recieve, so there's many, many possibilities for fun and roleplays. Here's just a short sample of the sort of fun we enjoy getting up to:Dreams-of-Spanking_big-location-shoot2013_galleristas5

  • Double caning - Ever imagined what it would be like to be on the recieving end of the cane from two ladies? One right hander, one left hander? Now you can try it for real, if you think you're brave enough!
  • Spanked at school, spanked at home - You know the rules, if you're summoned to the headmistresses office to recieve the cane, you can expect a hard spanking from Mum when you get home. And don't try to get out of it, the headmistress has already called ahead.
  • Can you handle two sadistic girls ganging up on you together? Two prefects taking advantage of the new student, or maybe your ex and her best friend are out for revenge, either way, you'll not know what's hit you
  • Caught behind the bike shed with your girlfriend, again. Being made to watch your girlfriend being punished, all the while, knowing you're up next.
  • Ring of Fire! One pack of cards, 3 switches, and a lot of kinky fun. Our fates are down to the cards, but all of us will get spanked, and dish out spankings as well!
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Reflections on punishment

I'm slowly beginning to realise that I don't like punishment. I mean, I know you're not meant to like it, that's kinda the point of punishment. What I mean is that the punishment dynamic does very little for me these days, especially if I (or the character I'm playing, in the case of roleplay) am in the wrong and deserving of punishment, and believe so.

On our big location shoot earlier this year, I had 2 days of shooting with Pandora and Tom. Both fantastic CP tops. I excitedly sat down and planned lots of scripts that tapped into my fantasies, but it wasn't until last week, when I was editing the content, that I realised that out of everything we shot, we only did 1 punishment scene. And even in that scene, the punishment was somewhat unfair, and unjustified.

Looking back through the history of my site is interesting. I have a lot of spanking scenes, but most are spanking for enjoyment, as a reward or two people enjoying CP for the sake of it. There are also a few punishment scenes, but rarely are these justified punishments. They are tops taking roles where they abuse their power, where they are clearly the ones in the wrong. I love this feeling of abuse of power, and I think it's something which comes through strongly in my spankings scenes, both as a bottom (I'm thinking of "I've Seen You", here especially), and as a top (in the School Bully series).

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Lady Godiva and Michael Darling

Life is settling back into normal routines here now, and I've nearly caught up with all my laundry from the location shoot and my sessions immediately after! But even though I still have a pile of white knickers that need washing, the products of our time in the cottage are already being published!

I was trying to do a day-by-day breakdown of what we shot, and things seem to have come together perfectly for that, because Pandora has just published the film that we shot that morning, while waiting for the lovely Michael Darling to arrive.... (Michael was helping out after the model who had been booked fror that day was in a car accident on his way to us - we didn't know about that until the day after we shot with Michael, at the time all we knew was that he hadn't arrived)

It wasn't the first thing we shot that day, but I'll come back to the things we did first in a moment.... now I want to share some images from Lady Godiva, a fun F/F spanking movie where I play a young lady who has joined the Pony Club, and brought some ideas with me that the more..... ahem.... traditional members don't approve of.

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